Episode 6 - Understanding the Beingness that Constitutes the Human Being

What happens before anxiety becomes anxiety? What happens before dementia becomes dementia? What is the nature of our dis-ease before it becomes a physical and nameable disease?

We each have our own favourite flavour that we use to check out and numb ourselves from the mundanity of life. Yet the why remains. Why, when we are deeply sensitive multi-dimensional beings, do we distract ourselves with chips, television, gaming, drugs, and or ice cream?

In this insightful interview Serge Benhayon takes the ‘100 steps back’ from some very human problems to look at the human being when the ‘beingness’ of the human gets denied and buried. Beyond this he explores the vibrant beauty of what life can look like when the being is fostered and nurtured in a way “that society is yet to comprehend.”

And P.S. if you ever felt like you wanted to blame your parents for how your life turned out, even just a little bit… make sure you watch the second half of this episode.

389 comments

  • Jenny James May 8, 2018   Reply →

    A revelatory interview, thank you Serge Benhayon and Rebecca Asquith. We are an energetic beings first … we feel and sense absolutely everything, and can express who we truly are.

  • Natalie Hawthorne May 3, 2018   Reply →

    How Serge has beautifully simplified something that could otherwise be beyond our understanding. This a testament in itself as to how Serge lives and shares his life with everything. The fact that we are beings well before we are human is something that has not been discussed and exposed so openly, or at least to what I have experienced in my life. I have felt and connected to this and it makes complete and utter sense.

    • David September 14, 2018   Reply →

      I find that time and time again with Serge. How he brings a real simplicity to so many topics, its supported me to do the same to look at life and instead of be caught in the complexity to approach life from simplicity.

  • Jennifer Smith April 30, 2018   Reply →

    An incredible episode that asks us to consider and ponder deeply on how we are living and the effect that this has both on ourselves and life around us. I love that Serge and Rebecca are discussing the almost forgotten part of the human being, that of our being. We are human beings, we have a physical body that requires care and attention. But we also have our beingness that is equally important to nourish and care for.

  • Mary April 29, 2018   Reply →

    We deny our feelings and in that denial we crush the sensitivity of our beingness.
    We seem to constantly deny what at some level we know to be true and instead rely on our minds to get us through the day. When we find a way to reunite ourselves back to our bodies, literally a whole new vista opens up there is such an expanse to explore and we then have to wonder what keeps us so small and contracted that we didn’t feel the greatness of the space all around us.

  • Melinda Knights April 22, 2018   Reply →

    It’s so interesting about not needing the rewards of life when we are fully connected to our being because there is nothing greater than it. This highlights how disconnected we have become because so much in life is used as a reward, whether it’s a chocolate bar, a glass of wine, a trip away, we tend to endure the daily grind to get to the reward. Even retirement is a long term reward. Living life connected to the being is something I’m getting a taste of, it cuts so much of the need for outer things, TV, food, etc, because it is just such a joy to be me and experience all the qualities that come through from my soul.

  • kehinde James April 20, 2018   Reply →

    Thank you Serge, for an extra-ordinarily clear explanation of the human-being and consequences of us denying the existence of our being-ness. This episode dropped visors from my view and opened me up to something deeply profound, yet not fully understood until now.

  • kehinde James April 20, 2018   Reply →

    This stopped me in my tracks “Why do you need a substance to bring you a reward when the greatest reward is being you?”

    • Jennifer Smith April 30, 2018   Reply →

      Its interesting how we can hear something often and then at one time it stops us like that. Sometimes we are more ready and open to hearing something than at other times.

  • kehinde James April 20, 2018   Reply →

    A profound explanation of who we are as human beings, not just functional but multi-dimensional beings. The ability to connect to multi-dimensionality transforms our experience of life from ordinary to extra-ordinary.

  • Sandra Vicary April 19, 2018   Reply →

    What I love about Serge Benhayon is that he explains everything from every angle so that we get a complete and whole understanding of what he is talking about. So to listen to him explaining the reason why we get anxious as being the gap between what we know to be true and what we have felt it in our bodies on an energetic level but have dismissed it, makes me realise how much I have lived in this way but have never understood it or the implications of it until now. And there are so many people in the world living in this way.

    • Melinda Knights April 22, 2018   Reply →

      Sandra I found that very helpful too as I’ve recently seen in my own life the connection between not expressing myself and anxiety.

  • Nattalija April 18, 2018   Reply →

    An episode all about connecting the the being in all of us. How is that for bringing responsibility to humanity to live the true quality from within!

  • Michael Brown April 17, 2018   Reply →

    Understanding how the being plays the human is a key aspect of understanding how to connect and embody the soul.

  • Jennifer Smith April 16, 2018   Reply →

    If we are not addressing everything in our life, anything that we feel, what we are observing, they are still present in our body. Then we layer on top of that more of the same. Things just don’t go away, we have to actively work on truly letting go of that which builds up unaddressed over time. If not, it will eventually have an effect on our overall health.

  • Elaine Arthey April 10, 2018   Reply →

    When we consider energetic responsibility as well as temporal responsibility we can make a marked difference not only in our personal worlds but in the world at large.

    • Viktoria June 27, 2019   Reply →

      It changes the way we do life completely, when we know that there is an underlying quality that is either enhanced or compromised.

  • Rowena Stewart April 8, 2018   Reply →

    We are amazing beings and so when we do withdraw that amazingness that energy has to still be expressed and so it comes out a bit mangled up because we haven’t allowed it the free and fluent expression that it deserves. I can only say this now having been encouraged to nurturing my ‘beingness’ and see what it was that I was holding back and how as a consequence it affected my mental and emotional wellbeing. Serge Benhayon brings a great deal of sense to our world and is a sage well worth paying attention to.

  • leigh matson April 7, 2018   Reply →

    Increasingly I’ve been finding mundane days disturbing, an itching that knows there could be more. Sitting with this it feels like my responsibility to not allow mundane to occur. The more I feel the uncomfortable energy and not check out the more willing I am to change things.

  • Michael Brown April 6, 2018   Reply →

    There is dis-ease long before there is the disease.

  • Carmel Reid April 6, 2018   Reply →

    Truly powerful and truly expressive, we think power is control over other people, but that is not true power. I like the way that Serge Benhayon suggests we take 100 steps back to see where these illusions developed and where we went wrong, and he reminds us about the beingness in being a human being. The mechanics to the human part is beautiful and medicine goes a long way to helping us function, but it hasn’t helped us develop harmony in our society. The being is a multidimensional character that many of us are totally unaware of and this is where we need to go if we are to evolve.

  • Melinda Knights April 4, 2018   Reply →

    It’s the missing link that we have a being, and that it’s experience of its awareness of the world as well as the lack of expression of the fullness of its beingness impacts every part of our psychological and physical wellbeing.

  • Shami April 1, 2018   Reply →

    There is a beautiful moment in this interview when Serge Benhayon talks about the depths of energetic responsibility that it is possible to live with, and in this moment he says that “it is not easy, but it is worth it”. I find this so inspiring because of how honest Serge is being, clearly laying out the choice and letting it be known what that choice is. So, yes anyone can choose it – but with the full awareness of what they are choosing and the path that it offers. So in effect any one can say – yes I know this will be a difficult path to walk, but I choose it anyway because it is worth it.

  • Victoria March 31, 2018   Reply →

    Speaking about anxiousness, it would also make sense that if we are filling ourselves up with stimulants like sugar and coffee we cannot truly feel the ease and presence with our bodies, as we are moving physiologically faster than our natural rhythm and this creates tension and stress in the body.

  • Victoria March 31, 2018   Reply →

    This is true, ‘that we are energetic beings first and foremost’, and even if we are not choosing to be consciously aware of the fact we are registering and feeling everything on an energetic level. Without this awareness it makes sense we would feel an underlying anxiousness, as we are not fully present to what is. Reading life brings a deeper understanding to all we see and feel.

  • Victoria March 31, 2018   Reply →

    As Serge presents here, “We are developing human beings without the ‘being”. This really explains a lot of our issues for without nurturing the essence we are we, the ‘being’ aspect we will feel empty and will ever be attempting to fill the void.

    • Melinda Knights April 22, 2018   Reply →

      I know that very well Victoria in my own life from trying to fill the emptiness with food or entertainment, to searching relentlessly for the truth because I felt there must be more to life. I found Serge after decades of searching to realise what was missing was me, the being or soul, which I have now reconnected to.

  • Ingrid Ward March 29, 2018   Reply →

    I love how Serge Benhayon takes a topic that to most would seem a little challenging to understand and makes it so simple, real and very relatable. The common-sense way that he presents the truth is so refreshing in a world where we are presented with so much complication on a daily basis.

  • Michael Brown March 28, 2018   Reply →

    It is age-old known, but worth repeating, that if we were to each be responsible for our own movements we would need no war against any supplier or demander.

  • Melinda Knights March 20, 2018   Reply →

    There is such a richness to these interviews, I’ve already watched this a few times yet I receive so much understanding each time about myself and human beings in general. Everything shared here makes so much sense, that we don’t foster the beingness yet we still live connected to it and experience the ramifications of not living the truth of ourselves in our fullness.

  • Mary March 20, 2018   Reply →

    These conversations are so needed in our society today, when Serge Benhayon talks about low grade misery and that there is part of the human being that doesn’t want to feel this any more so it withdraws from life. I completely get this as that is what I did in my early 20’s and instead used drugs prescribed to me by the doctor which enabled me to completely give up on myself. If I look out to society today many more people are choosing this option, only it’s not an option because it comes with huge consequences further down the road so to say.

  • Mary March 18, 2018   Reply →

    What Serge is presenting about the human-being and the being within being human is HUGE because as he says we can more or less fix the human but this hasn’t stopped the rise in illness and disease in the human frame. So is it more than time to connect to the being part of us and listen to this part of our body maybe the being has the answer. And let’s face it humanity has tried everything apart from connecting to our being, so why not give this a go?

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh March 18, 2018   Reply →

    Such conversations are great, because without “understanding the beingness that constitutes the human being”, and also differentiating between spirit and Soul, we will never fully understand the riddles and discrepancies we keep witnessing in human life.

  • Joshua Campbell March 17, 2018   Reply →

    Love the analogy of the human being as in being a human and the being inside the human being. On this count alone we are diminishing to being less than who we truly are because we are more than just human! So much love in this teaching and understanding of life. And man would this world be different if we saw both as equally as important as each other

  • Michael Brown March 16, 2018   Reply →

    Life is not just human, it cannot be so when how the world operates does not make sense. Only when the energetic factor is brought in can I understand human life.

  • Shami March 16, 2018   Reply →

    Serge Benhayon here gives an indication of a life lived from who we truly are, and how energetically responsible that would be. Which is interesting because this takes out the notion that to be connected with one’s essence is a selfish or indulgent act. Which then brings in to question about what is truly going on when there is selfishness and indulgence, because if this is not an expression of one’s essence, then what is expressing in that moment?

  • Rebecca March 16, 2018   Reply →

    Not having an understanding of this inner being can leave us very hurt and frustrated by the actions of others that we don’t understand, or seemingly unable to change or fix ourselves when we do things we don’t want to like over eating or anxiety or depression. It is like being left without all the words in a language needed to communicate, your left not fully understanding or able to express.

  • Danna Elmalah March 15, 2018   Reply →

    What a profound truth is being shared here, where we can see through the illusions, glamour and emotions of things to see that we are a being in a human form. That we are not just what we see and that in fact we are energetic, able to feel everything, yet have been creating a way that has actually taken us away from our responsibility — feeling and knowing energy and being responsive to it. Deep thanks to Serge Benhayon for not holding back on bringing back the exact truth we know but have been denying for thousands of years.

  • Mary March 10, 2018   Reply →

    No one that I know of has ever explained that we are energetic beings and that we feel energy all the time and it is when we discount what we feel and what we can sense from our surroundings that the body gets anxious. I have to ask the question why is it that such a fundamental part of who we are is totally ignored? Is it possible that if we were to reconnect back to this energetic awareness that may be this would be the answer to our health problems? As we all know through the many scientific studies that stress has a huge detrimental effect on the body and what if all this starts because we deny what we are actually sensing. How come we can train say a guide dog to sense danger and alert it’s owner, but we don’t seem to appreciate we have the same in built sensing qualities in ourselves.

  • Jennifer Smith March 9, 2018   Reply →

    There is so much that we don’t see in this world. We know that we are so much more than simply a physical body, but its not something that we live. Its put down to something that we believe in or not. Serge Benhayon raises the bar on these conversations giving us the opportunity to consider that we really are more and that we can live the more that we are too.

  • Ingrid Ward March 9, 2018   Reply →

    Serge Benhayon makes so much sense even out of what appears to be a complicated issue. To take 100 steps back from an issue gives us the opportunity to not just fix it temporarily, but to bring a full understanding as to why it happened and then to heal it in full. It may take a little more time but how valuable will the choice to do so be when the issue is no longer an issue.

  • Jennifer Smith March 8, 2018   Reply →

    “The way we are living is not truly working”. This is not a commonly said statement. So is this not part of our considerations? I think not as we keep moving the goal posts and consistently bury what needs to be address.

  • Jennifer Smith March 8, 2018   Reply →

    Its true that the majority of people have at least a low grade anxiousness. I have certainly felt this for myself and I have observed that when I downplay what I have read in a situation, anxiousness is inevitable. When I read what is truly going on, what that does is bring understanding to the whole picture. When in anxiousness what I see is limited to what my eyes allow, rather than all of my senses.

  • Samantha Davidson March 6, 2018   Reply →

    This is beautiful definition and so relatable. What we sense is so often overridden for what we think is happening or should happen. I love pondering the gaps….in life.

  • Mary March 6, 2018   Reply →

    I totally get what Serge Benhayon is saying about how when we are not given the space as children to express what we feel it gets bottled up inside and this tension has to go somewhere. So is it then possible that illness and disease has a root cause, If we are not able to express what we feel and be held in the honouring and sensitivity of those feelings. I know I was not honoured as a child and now I understand how the bottling up of my expression for years lead to a nervous breakdown as an adult.

  • Elaine Arthey March 4, 2018   Reply →

    When we recognise the being in the human being we can be aware of so much more that this life is about. We can become more honest with ourselves and begin to present the love and truth that we are.

  • Michael Brown March 3, 2018   Reply →

    When we look at the world through this lens it makes so much sense. Something I could never previously make of life.

  • Michael Brown February 27, 2018   Reply →

    This is the result of no attachment or investment into anything that television or the material world can offer.

  • Samantha Davidson February 15, 2018   Reply →

    So many of us do not seek to look at what got us to where we are at…..and so we dip into anything that will get us to numb out, check out or not be responsible….And so walks in the “One hundred step situation” This changes everything, reflect on why and how we got here and to not blame anything or anyone else, well that makes life look and feel very different, then you can truly heal.

    • Alexis Stewart January 28, 2019   Reply →

      We can hang out as long as we like, avoiding the truth of how we got ourselves into the mess that we’re in. We can continue to avoid, distract and busy ourselves for thousands more lifetimes. God has no investment whatsoever in having us back in any particular time frame. So play, procrastinate, tread water, go backwards, go round and round, it’s all our own choosing as is returning back to truth also our own choosing.

  • Michael Brown February 5, 2018   Reply →

    With the amount that sickness is costing the economy it would be wise to look at not only the symptoms but the deeper causes of illness.

    • Victoria March 31, 2018   Reply →

      True, from the inside out, in us responding from our bodies is where a true shift and healing can take place.

  • Michael Brown February 3, 2018   Reply →

    There is so much more to life than we currently want to believe.

  • Gabriele Conrad February 3, 2018   Reply →

    We have many solutions for anxiousness but until we address its root cause, whether that be taking on too much, not expressing what is there to be expressed, inapt movement, everything else is but a bandaid which is at most temporary until another technique or modality captures our imagination and fills us with promises and hope.

  • Rebecca February 3, 2018   Reply →

    I agree Gill, we have learned to treat the body as a functional machine, but there is so much more to us as beings and i have only known Serge to present this in a way that makes sense and works out in a lived way

    • Nattalija February 12, 2018   Reply →

      The function limits what we can bring when we honour the being and all that is on offer through the sharing of Serge Benhayon. We are much more than a body and our movements offer one another a greater reflection than we choose to want to know.

  • Michael Brown February 1, 2018   Reply →

    I’ve come to the point where, through what i’ve observed in myself and humanity, I recognise and understand that there is more to our world than what we see with our physical eye. There is energy well before a physical manifest.

  • Shami January 31, 2018   Reply →

    This to me just says it all: that we are already feeling everything on a very deep level, and if we deny what we feel and know then we create for ourselves an anxiousness. So, as I understand this to be, it means that ones trustful and loving relationship with their-self is paramount to feeling settled and confident in the world.

  • Mary January 29, 2018   Reply →

    I feel you have captured the way we are currently living with the word Mundane Rebecca humanity seems to have lost its vitality and we have reduced our lives to just function, and in this dysfunction we can feel the misery and so is it possible we withdraw to try and escape what we are feeling?

  • Rebecca January 26, 2018   Reply →

    Revolutionary – in every way what is shared, it is deeply confirming but also for many, a complete first for this way of considering a person and mental health

  • Michael Brown January 22, 2018   Reply →

    I know from my own behaviour that there is more to me than just the human. I do and say things sometimes that just don’t make any sense, and I can withdraw even further letting those behaviours take control which confirms to me that I am not just what one see’s physically, but am part of another dimension too.

  • Natalie Hawthorne January 16, 2018   Reply →

    Without the demand there is no supply. hhhhmm so that means we have to be totally and brutally honest about what our actions, choices and desires are feeding and in doing so the ripple effect that this has in humanity. I know for quite some time I didn’t want to look as I enjoyed the unaccountable way I was living. But I also got to feel how loveless this was and that I deep down craved to be in connection with my inner being. We can’t have our cake and eat it to, we have to take responsibility for our choices.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh January 22, 2018   Reply →

      This is such a huge message in a culture of finger pointing and lack of responsibility. I grew up with a twisted belief that if I could blame the system or people about a wrong, then I was somehow superior on moral grounds. The reflection that without a demand no supplier could possibly carry on the supplying, turns the focus round 180 degrees and introduces an irrefutable awareness of self-responsibility.

  • David January 13, 2018   Reply →

    Rebecca Asquith, what a great discussion on anxiety, it’s something that so many of us have or do have in life and yet we often don’t know how to deal with it. I love the simplicity and honoring that by listening and responding to what we feel is the underlying issue, healing that can take place.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh January 10, 2018   Reply →

    When we deny what we know and what we feel, well before we register as a state of anxiousness, we have started on this track. I reckon we would see a lot more confidence, wisdom and responsible choices right from very young if instead we encouraged the honouring of all that we can feel and supported developing the ability to express it.

  • David January 2, 2018   Reply →

    The more I read and understand about beingness, the very fact that it is the quality of our being and beingness that is the most valuable asset in the world the more I am amazed at how I coped in life before, as when you try to go through life without the beingness its like not being in life.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh December 31, 2017   Reply →

    The wisdom and guidance offered here is priceless. Our society and institutions may not be set up to welcome our true expression at the level of our beingness. It is up to us to start to live this level of honouring for ourselves and then slowly start to take it out to others and into society.
    It is never about pointing the finger and blame, but deepening the level of our awareness and personal responsibility.

  • Mary December 31, 2017   Reply →

    We have been taught how to live in our bodies and get by on function. But we have not been taught how to live with this other part of us the ‘being’ that is the all knowing part of us. Most of us have memories of this expanded part when we are young but we are seemingly discouraged from developing and deepening the connection. And to me that is the biggest detriment to ourselves and our society because we are actually missing the best part of ourselves.

  • Karin Barea December 31, 2017   Reply →

    This is huge, developing the trust and courage that we know ourselves better than anyone else and can be our own true teacher and not rely on an education system/society that isn’t fostering this currently. That we have it all within is deeply inspiring and I know there are times when I am not connected with this, then I see the reflection that Serge Benhayon and others like him provide that show me the truth of this, so that I dare to take the steps to know it within myself too.

  • Karin Barea December 31, 2017   Reply →

    Yes, I too have never heard this level of accuracy and wisdom outside from what Serge Benhayon delivers. I have experienced anxiousness as what here is described and it’s paramount we start asking ourselves what kind of society we are accepting that discourages us from expressing what we feel as what we feel is there for a reason, it’s there for us to evolve. So where are we heading if we cannot express what supports us as a whole species? Where we are often discouraged or even targeted for our expression and that all too often we cope with this by attacking the body – the vehicle through which we feel- with behaviours that cause ill health. If we did all express what we felt , heeded what was said then society could transform itself, rather than trying to alleviate anxiety by self-talk and confidence-building in what you do instead of appreciating and re-discovering the amazing beings we truly are.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh December 30, 2017   Reply →

    The evil is not in the supply. We have to look at the demand, because without the demand there will be no supply.
    I love the way Serge Benhayon always brings it round to personal responsibility, offers a deeper understanding of the root cause and invites a greater commitment to living the expression of the love that is our true essence.

  • Andrew Mooney December 29, 2017   Reply →

    The ‘100 steps back’ presentation here makes so much sense and totally explains why our quick fix solutions that we apply to societies ills and problems do not work – we need to consider and accept ourselves as beings not just humans.

  • Lucy Dahill December 29, 2017   Reply →

    Children are a great reflection for me, they are sensitive, what we may call too sensitive, but what if they are not too sensitive and we have toughened up to accept a normal that was once abusive in its words and behaviour. I am not talking physical assault, that is obviously abusive, but what if we have a bar for what we accept as normal that allows way more aggression and abuse than we should and the anxiety levels in children are them trying to make sense of what they are being told to accept as normal?

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh January 12, 2018   Reply →

      Great point Lucy. Most of us pride ourselves for being tough and how much we can put up with, so it becomes a game to put on a brave face or numb ourselves from feeling much. What if the honesty offered by the tenderness, the sensitivity and the openness that is reflected by young children and those who are considered too sensitive is actually what is needed for us to heal the many issues we are facing throughout the world and evolve?

  • Natalie Hawthorne December 28, 2017   Reply →

    When we learn to bring understanding to relationships then we can truly allow for healing to take place. What I love is Serge Benhayon offers a way of viewing life and I have learnt so much and it has taught me how I can bring understanding to situations. Letting go of judgements and seeing things for what they truly are is super powerful.

  • Michael Brown December 25, 2017   Reply →

    When one looks at the matter openly, all is presented and the evidence is super clear.

  • Jennifer Smith December 23, 2017   Reply →

    I can feel the importance of attending to our everyday feelings and details of our everyday life. For if we don’t they compound and they do affect our bodies physically. But they are already profoundly affecting us the moment we ignore, override or avoid what we are feeling. We do feel everything immediately and we ignore this at our own peril and that of our society. In fact we are seeing this everyday around us.

  • Elaine Arthey December 22, 2017   Reply →

    Looking at anxiety like this makes so much sense and makes it easier to understand our behaviours and ‘conditions’ that are so prevalent in our society today like autism, dementia and other mentally and emotionally rooted dis-eases.

  • HM December 17, 2017   Reply →

    I find it interesting that it is more and more common to only refer to ourselves a human rather than ‘human being’ – and that energetically – even discounting the word being, means we are choosing less. we are choosing not to see the whole picture and we consider ourselves physical when truly we know so much more.

  • Michael Brown December 6, 2017   Reply →

    When we are open to the possibility that everything is energy first, we allow ourselves to see the true cause of the ill human being we have today.

  • Natalie Hawthorne December 4, 2017   Reply →

    When I brought the understanding that Serge Benhayon shared around parents, and got that it wasn’t actually their fault that they weren’t able to express, and honour the love of their children, that it was all they knew and were void of the connection to their own beingness, I couldn’t judge or point fingers here – I could only see them for the sweet, tender, sensitive and loving beings they truly are, underneath their behaviours.

  • Natallija November 30, 2017   Reply →

    Having viewed this episode a number of time I am inspired with not only seeing but feeling the ‘beingness of others’. When this is on offer there is no space for judgement, instead bucket loads of understanding.

  • Jennifer Smith November 27, 2017   Reply →

    Serge mentioned taking 100 steps back if we are going to really look at anything in our lives. Therefore, we cannot approach a problem that we have in the same way that resulted in the problem in the first place, otherwise we just keep on finding that same problem somewhere else. It may look different, but its exactly the same.

  • Kerstin Salzer November 27, 2017   Reply →

    What is presented here is a foundation to life and brings in a simple way how we can live life, bring forth our truth and develop joy and vibrancy.

  • Rebecca November 26, 2017   Reply →

    I love this interview for the way it so simply addresses some of the fastest growing issues our world faces and brings it back to a understanding of who we are way before we become ill.

  • Kerstin Salzer November 26, 2017   Reply →

    To understand that anxiousness is coming from not expressing of what we feel gives already the medicine against anxiousness. This is amazing to understand and grasp that we are so much more than we are ready to see with our eyes.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh December 8, 2017   Reply →

      Life becomes so simple when we start to accept the magnificence of our essence and consider that living against that has consequences.

  • Michael Brown November 22, 2017   Reply →

    Always knew that there was more to life than random chaos. What a beautiful confirmation this video is of that.

  • Samantha November 21, 2017   Reply →

    “We are to avoid at all costs anything that diminishes who we truly are” Wow this really does say it all doesn’t it, I can think of many things that I can avoid, what an awesome reminder that we have the power to choose differently.

  • Natallija November 20, 2017   Reply →

    I so love this word ‘beingness’. The powerful and simple tones bring out the quality of appreciation that is so often over looked by us all.

  • Samantha Davidson November 11, 2017   Reply →

    I can attest to the fact that felt uneasy until I became more honest about what constitutes me, I am not merely physical matter that evolved from other physical matter, I am a being that feels energy, all of me is made of energy, the matter is actualised through energy. To discount this fact of the universe brings dis-ease and dis-harmony, there is no surprise that many us just feel like we are not content, we contend wit the world on only the surface level and do not allow ourselves the depth and energy that is within it. Serge Benhayon is a remarkable and wise philosopher who will stand the test of time and I am inspired by what he lives and teaches.

  • Michael Brown November 7, 2017   Reply →

    It’s so settling to know that we are responsible for our lives. It removes the whole need to carry grudges against our parents, teachers, colleagues and even God. This video actually gives us the tools to go and say “No, I am responsible for my life and I will live it the way I want. Not the way I am told I have to live it due to my ‘circumstances’.

    This video is not lifechanging perse, but it most definitely can change your life.

    • Lucy Dahill December 29, 2017   Reply →

      Well said Michael, I feel the same. I don’t feel a pull to follow a way, I feel a pull to take responsibility for my life and the way I behave. That is what has and will continue to change my life.

  • Rebecca November 5, 2017   Reply →

    What Serge presents in this interview is a whole other dimension of life – considering humans are more than just flesh and blood but as a being totally opens up the discussion around not just anxiousness but mental health in general.

  • Rebecca November 2, 2017   Reply →

    For myself, this taking 1000 steps back is amazing. When I feel anxious I dont just feel at the mercy of this thing that creeps up on me and is horrible and affects me in negative ways, I can take steps back and look at what more is going on in my day or even week that is causing this feeling and then work on that

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh November 14, 2017   Reply →

      Its brilliant to have the understanding to be able to assess and take responsibility for our own life, and start to resolve the issue, without feeling helpless about it or resorting to blaming someone or something which keeps us just as disempowered.

  • Rebecca November 2, 2017   Reply →

    I love this interview for how simply it explains one of the biggest issues we face today – I have never met someone who has not at some point felt anxiety to some degree, and as is said I think it is an ever present hum in most people’s lives we have come to accept and medicate in many different ways, be it through exercising out the excess tension or numbing with drugs and alcohol or using sugar or caffeine to keep us going even though the constant anxiousness is exhausting – all these things work to a point at managing the symptoms but often only barely to allow us to function, they don’t really deal with why we are anxious to begin with – and this is where this interview is key because it introduces that ‘being’ aspect of ourselves we are all too quick to ignore if we are even aware of it in the first place

  • Sarah Karam November 1, 2017   Reply →

    Anxiety is something that most people unfortunately have experienced at some point in their lives but to truly address any condition we must have some distance from the issue, otherwise we are approaching the problem from within the problem. What I am understanding from this interview is that a human being is made up of two parts, the HUMAN element and the BEING element. What we have not fostered enough within ourselves or as a society is this beingness. The being component is a multidimensional character that reaches far beyond the current human flesh model. We cannot write off or dismiss this part of ourselves, the part that has a feeling about someone and then bumps into them that day, or has a dream that warns them about an event or that knows not to go home that way but doesn’t know why and later finds out there was an accident on the road . We have all had these moments and if we were to appreciate and nurture them, we would find that they would not be so few and far between. Equally though, we must respect the fact that we in a body that requires food, water, the correct amount of sleep etc.etc.. My sense is, in order to heal the current human condition and restore perfect balance as human beings, we have to foster these two parts equally. We have tried the human part taking centre stage but when the human part of us is forced to hold everything, it cannot cope, for it is not natural and therefore it will find ways to cope, withdrawal, numbing activities. We were born to shine in both the HUMAN and the BEING and when we do, then and only then will we begin to see the peak of our true potential as human-beings.

  • Fiona Cochran October 29, 2017   Reply →

    At last there is someone who can explain dementia in such a way that we can understand what is truly going on for those suffering. When we understand that there is the physical part and an energetic part which we have denied feeling it all makes sense. If the world is going to change and we want to see reversal in these current trends then we need to start to be honest and allow ourselves to feel what is plaguing society.

  • jennym October 20, 2017   Reply →

    The word being has always been a part of who we have called ourselves as human beings and yet we have deliberately ignored what the quality of the being is that we were we living the human from.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh November 4, 2017   Reply →

      It is great having someone call out these issues which seem subtle on first glance, yet when you look at them more closely realise they have a profound impact on the whole fabric of our lives.

  • HM October 19, 2017   Reply →

    Dementia is becoming so apparent because more and more we make it OK to ‘check out’ and not be present. Which put us in a state of disconnection. And it is a horrible way to die – to allow the body to forget to function. And yet it is on the rise.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh October 18, 2017   Reply →

    We are “deeply sensitive multi-dimensional beings”, who have created a world and lives that are nowhere near the truth of our expression. Whilst most of us seem resigned to chasing our tail day in day out trying to make it all work, it is a blessing to have those like Serge Benhayon that not only provide a reminder that there is for more to us, but also show the truth of that by personal living reflection.

  • Jennifer Smith October 15, 2017   Reply →

    Medicine has been incredible in the way that it supports the physical body. In that way we have come so far. But with all the advancements in medicine we still have advancing states of disease and it is not lessening. We will reach a point that we will need to ask more, we will need to consider that there is more to us than our physical body and this will be an equally important consideration in terms of the future of health care.

  • Natalie Hawthorne October 13, 2017   Reply →

    The way society is built up, as Serge Benhayon is saying, is that we are not aware or educated that we are in an ocean of energy. That we too are a being of energy and this carries a responsibility that we have to live this in harmony with the whole Universe we are apart of.

  • Jennifer Smith October 7, 2017   Reply →

    We are so much more than we see. If we only see ourselves and the world with our eyes then we will only be met by what is physically in front of us. But we know that that is not it and that there is more. Our beingness is that more.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh November 15, 2017   Reply →

      Over the years I have so many times heard ‘we are more’ and ‘there is more’. Yet it has somehow always been left in the theoretical or wishful realm. It is refreshing and inspiring to find someone like Serge Benhayon that actually talks in detail about the fact that there IS more to us and offers you the space to start slowly seeing that this understanding is practically applicable to everyday life.

  • Jennifer Smith October 6, 2017   Reply →

    Interesting if we ponder on the phrase ‘human being’ we almost leave out the word being. As said in this interview we actually have forgotten what this part of being human is about. Yes we are human, its a very physical experience, but we also have an innate knowing of everything that is around us, that does not necessarily come from our physical experiences and yet how do we explain this? And then how do we nurture this very important part of ourselves so that the human and the being live day to day and moment to moment as one?

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh October 5, 2017   Reply →

    These episodes certainly sets a new marker for TV viewing that honours the love, wisdom and divine within us all, and inspires each of us to connect to and express that in our lives.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh October 2, 2017   Reply →

    I have not come across any person or any literature that makes those fundamental questions about “who am I” and understanding life, so practical and normal as does Serge Benhayon. This episode offers a wonderful exploration our relationship with ourselves as human beings.

  • Vanessa mchardy October 2, 2017   Reply →

    I agree, what Serge Benhayon described here is absolute gold, we know so much more than we are often willing to admit.

  • Melinda Knights September 29, 2017   Reply →

    It’s a simple and common sense thing to say, we are a human being and we are neglecting the being part. Talk of soul and spirit is not new, we all deeply know there is more to ourselves and more to life, and the dimensions of the soul once connected to answer all our deepest questions.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 29, 2017   Reply →

    We are great at looking for solutions to deal with the myriad of issues in life, we employ strategies and control, we can blame, go into opposition and at times fight for what we think is right.
    Yet all along we seem to keep avoiding the one key ingredient that this episode invites us to look at: “understanding the beingness that constitutes the human-being”.

  • Natalie Hawthorne September 29, 2017   Reply →

    Our society is absolutely totally built up on an understanding that it is all about being human and the functionality of life, and completely disconnected to the fact that we are beings of love and light – and this is the key element to who we are and how we live from this connection.

  • Stephen Gammack September 23, 2017   Reply →

    Every reaction I have does seem to have root in my experiences, and I love what is shared here about not allowing ourselves to be dominated by the childhood experiences we have, or to blame as an adult our parents for any struggle. It is so much more empowering to say, hey, I am an adult now, and I am going to let go of that particular experience and reset myself to be open and loving and really contribute a personality that is amazing to be around. It is quite a thing to do that and a way of living worth applying effort into.

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