Episode 14 - The Gods Making Love
The ‘energetic hermaphrodite’ is an utterly unfamiliar concept to us in these porn-saturated times… or at any time really.
Having lived through a long period where the Church debased the act of sex to the level of profanity – one only permitted begrudgingly when employed for procreation – the opportunity to explore the magnificence of true union between the male and female aspects was one enjoyed by very few…. and they most likely weren’t talking about it to avoid the approbation and punishment of the clergy.
But picture yourself at the local swimming pool . . .
The Church won’t even let you take your clothes off, let alone go in.
The pendulum swings and now the visually obsessed porn industry arises to fill the sex-education void. Function and performance driven – and utterly bereft of respect for the sacredness of the players it exploits in its often violent, cheap and frantic portrayals of the act of lovemaking – it barely allows us into the wading pool, with perhaps a quick dip into the ‘shallow end’. Shallow alright.
So who will take us to the ‘deep end’, to encourage us to explore the magnificent gifts that await in the depths of true surrender, where making love and the Universe itself are inextricably intertwined and inseparable? Who will explain how the ‘energetic hermaphrodite’ becomes the key to this ability to make love as a god?
Immerse yourself in this video as Serge Benhayon and Rebecca Asquith take you to those depths. It will remind you of who you truly are…
The written introduction for this interview is absolutely brilliant. An invitation to watch the video obviously, but also to immerse ourselves into the potential of true love making, an everyday, sacred activity that is absolutely not confined to the bedroom.
I love these episodes because watching them has brought in a completely different idea about sex & making love. The idea that perhaps it can actually be a loving act rather than an animalistic, all-consuming, and in some cases even abusive experience. How many of us (men and women) have settled with “that’ll do” when we know in the core of our being that we actually deserve and know much, much better.
In this day and age sex has been made to be all about the physical act and the chemistry, little is really felt or understood about the divine aspect and absolute love that unfolds. Serge Benhayon exposes the less then sexy lie some of us have been falling for for years.
Many people in society are missing out on true intimacy, this episode is an amazing reminder of the deep level of love that is available to us all.
We know there is more to life, and that ‘more’ applies to every aspect of life in very practical and real ways. After we reconnect to soul it’s an amazing experience to bring that into every part of life and see how it expresses.
It teaches us a lot this episode – so much about how to truly honour one another, how to be open, transparent and truly, truly loving.
How far we we have gone away from this normal way of being, how many of us yearn to have this in our everyday lives yet are not willing to do their part?
What Serge presents on making love is not out of this world and extravagant, it is normal to acknowledge that to honour your partner every second of the day is making love. When I first heard the idea I was very confused and couldn’t really comprehend what it is meant by that, is it an airy fairy kind of thing? Are you supposed to be holding hands while you cook? But no, it is not – it is the quality in which we engage, the tenderness & openness we have towards one other that then relates to the bedroom. This is a beautiful teaching.
What a great discussion, I particularly appreciated the part about sensitivity, it turned the common and often derogatory meaning of sensitivity on it’s head. It’s so important that we deeply honour who we naturally are, including our sensitivity, and understand the true meaning of our expression. We seem to have so many negative views about ourselves when actually there is a richness within us all, even if it’s covered up or suppressed. I found what was shared about sensitivity very confirming.
I have come to understand that when we reject ourselves in what ever way we are in fact poisoning our bodies and if this is true where does that poison go? Is it then possible that the poison could be the precursor to illness and disease in our bodies?
I agree. It is so great to put the topic of sensitivity on the table and to realise the strength of sensitivity. The fact that what we feel gives us so much more insight into everything that is going on around us. So when we do not honour our sensitivity we are ignorant of so much that is at play.
Melinda Knights, I have watched this episode several times, and every time I hear something different, this time listening to what Serge Benhayon shared about sensitivity it’s plain to see that we have replaced our sensitivity with self abuse and so its great to open up the discussion as to why we all play a part in crushing our sensitivity and replacing it with self abuse, because it just doesn’t make any sense to me why we should do this.
The more I get to grips with the hermaphrodite the more I see it is not something that is obvious to everyone who you meet, nor is it something that gives you extra powers. It is a result of tuning into that which are our innate gestures. Walking in absolute adoration of being alive.
When we start talking about meeting each other from the depth of our qualities then I can absolutely feel how making love can access something so much more profound and divine than physical stimulation and excitement.
Since listening to Serge Benhayon my husband and I have gone to another level in our relationship together, we know with out doubt that there is so much more to us being human- husband and wife. When we bring divinity into a relationship we bring in the universe and more. And that is when it is a blessing for all to see
I love how time and again we are brought back to just how sacred, delicate and gorgeous we are through every discussion Serge Benhayon engages in.
I like the hermaphrodite conversation, it’s not something I hear very often!
It is gorgeous listening to Serge Benhayon and being able to see how every aspect of life could be lived in sacredness. We are divine multidimensional beings yet we have been living so far from the graceful expression that we are from.
An most awesome healing to listen to this video episode. It re-ignites the love I know so well deep down and how I have always been aware of this lack of love in sex. And how this multidimension (love) needs to be brought back into our lives: in our every day moves. Now life gets to be joyfull! Oh yes.
Danna Elmalah, this episode shows humanity how we have made life very functional, and so we are all missing on on the depth and quality that can be had by all of us. But while we withdraw from life so as not to get hurt then we are missing out on the multidimension (love) that is constantly being offered by the universe.
There is so much world wide lies and corruption, bastardisation around what sex is and for, this interview blows all that out of the water and takes us to the truth that confirms the divinity we are all from.
And it touches in me something I know very deeply to be true. It is profound and at the same time super practical and simply makes sense.
These conversations are educational in a way that breaks what we have perceived the common norms to be. I am so glad that somebody is talking about sex and making love in this way because I what we have in our society at the moment is definitely not something worth celebrating.
Serge Benhayon is prepared to lift the lid on humanity and expose the rot we are all living in and with. By exposing the rotten way we treat ourselves and each other Serge also offers a different way and it is possible to feel the deep settlement within his body that this different way is possible. We may not be able to live this way just yet, but to just know there is a difference is the first step to break the stranglehold that we are all held in.
Over the 19 years Serge Benhayon has been presenting, he has regularly dismantled the societally accepted meaning of many words and in turn he has offered us the true meanings. And in this episode, he does it again, breaking down the accepted version of sensitivity, one of weakness, and replacing it with the true meaning, one of strength, a meaning which many of us, especially men would hugely benefit from knowing.
There is so much more to love than the word can convey.
This interview has woken me up to the true tenderness we can be when making love and that this quality starts in us and as it builds is naturally shared.
It makes complete sense that how we are with each other in our every day life would affect how we are with each other in the bedroom – after all we don’t have switches that can turn us on and off and turn on and off one part of our life from another. I also love how you talk about the wholesomeness of the human being.
It’s super cool that this kind of TV exists and can be watched by those who know there is more to life.
Here’s how God’s can be God’s!
And when we let ourselves feel the ‘deep end’ that this interview offers us we realise how wayward from our natural way of being together we are. Making love is an inner instinct for us all. I know I have to work hard to override this and that I do this to keep myself ‘protected’ from getting hurt. The madness is that the keeping myself apart, distant and/or ‘protected’ from others causes me the greatest pain.
I always remember when I was a child and I would get hurt, I would go into a sulk and inwardly make a pact to keep myself to myself, but the moment I would have that thought would be the most painful one, when I would feel a huge surge of pain in my chest and I would feel almost paralysed. For a long time I thought that was just part and parcel of the hurt I had felt. But now I realise that it was the pain of my choice to sever my expression and connection to others.
An interview that will change our relationship with intimacy and sex forever. Absolute gold that makes so much sense of my experiences.
Serge has just flipped the meaning of sensitivity from what we have been lead to believe what being sensitive is. I have been exploring and checking myself out in how I am with people, the way I communicate and the more I claim and feel the power and exquisiteness of who I am the more my communication with others changes. So much more to play with and see where this can really go!
Gods make love and ungods make the most reduced form of love possible.
The way I have been with myself, how I have treated boyfriends in the past and how I have been treated by boyfriends the past has not even touched on the level of respect and adoration for each other the Serge is presenting. This level of depth and communication between each other is totally possible it is just wether we are prepared to compromise or not.
I’m with you on this Natalie and it’s amazing to be shown this bar of standard. My past relationships with women have certainly fallen well below this and I am inspired by these words and by watching Serge Benhayon in his relationships to lift my own to that same level. He leads by example and that is the best form of teacher.
A true teaching on the science of making love and honouring both the male and female traits we all equally have.
It is very amazing to watch Serge Benhayon talk about beauty as the universality of a person being expressed through their physical body, because this takes away all the pressure for anyone to be picture perfect in the physical form, which leads the way for a deep deep level of self acceptance.
I love the constant invitation provided by Serge Benhayon to reconnect deeply, know and live the exquisite expression of our true essence.
The Beauty of the aspect that making love has been always about true love, all the false ideals, images, thoughts, acts etc. have been put on top of this. But in fact the love making in truth has always remained, just not lived. We come to see and feel, at least I have felt it from this episode that there is a greater call of love awaiting for us — when we allow ourselves to go deeper and truly share who we are — not just in our beds but actually in 24/7 life. Thank you Serge Benhayon and Rebecca Asquith.
How very beautiful – to know that we can make love with each other 24/7. What we share together in bed is a reflection of what we live together each day – why wouldn’t we want this to be a true and full expression of our absolute exquisiteness and love for each other.
Union of two is a wonder to see when it is done with respect to the greater union that awaits.
The ideas we have of gender are damaging, we grow up thinking we are against each other, or that we need things of each other, rather than being prepared to offer who we are in equality and with love.
Beautifully and simply said, thank you, Samantha. It makes absolutely no sense to be adversarial with one another and to do this based on gender is properly mad.
I used to seek the act of sex for some form of fulfilment and satisfaction. This was indeed nice but having let much of this go now and not ‘needing’ sex it then becomes a celebration which is far more enriching and fulfilling and is not just in the bedroom now, but in everything we do.
It’s great to have such a simple example of how we can live in a way that does throw out that gender-based human model.
If you say something that is unpopular but true – like stating that we are responsible for our own fate in many more ways than we currently think – and we continue to state the truth in the face of enormous personal attacks, then we have a level of courage, of love for truth and humanity, that is quite extraordinary.
The girls around me growing up who had the strictest parents ended up being the most ‘out there’ wild and ‘rebellious’ teenagers I knew.
The depth that most if not all of us have not connected to with ourselves let alone our partners is something that we can’t dodge or hide from. Yet we have given it a damn good go and run of its money! That point when we get to in our lives and call it for what it is that the way we have been living is not it, their has to be more. What Serge Benhayon is presenting and living is that there is another way we can be in relationships and it starts with honesty with ourselves, which can be a bitter pill to swallow.
It’s much cooler to see how a god would live life and work from that rather than looking at the lowest form of living and trying to improve it.
There is so much hypocrisy in organised religion if it wasn’t tragic it’d be funny.
I so agree with you Michael. One day humanity will look back at these days with the atrociousness of what religious institutions have carried out and prescribed, coupled by how most of us have swallowed it all and let the doctrines seep into our societies and daily lives. I imagine they will scratch their heads and go ‘Really? How is it possible to ever fall for that?’
Their rot and hypocrisy is not even hidden anymore, yet most of us still refuse to budge from the loyalty and the power we give to them.
We study the Dark Ages in shock and amazement at what was tolerated, and yet we don’t batter an eye-lid at the abuse, corruption and endemic oppression of the truth that is so rampant in the 21st century.
It is beautiful to hear that as we continue to honour our own and another’s sensitivity there is more and more depth that can be awakened. It takes sex away from a purely functional act where stimulation or relief was the main focus.
It seems that if one prostitutes themselves it is accepted as forging a life for themselves, and if one is celibate it is respected as their choice to keep their body ‘preserved’. However, live life full of love and take all of that into the bedroom and suddenly it’s deemed as weird and out of order…. makes sense much?
It’s our right to make love and to express that love however it comes. Don’t settle for less and don’t hide it!
All shapes and kinds but offering less we are not truly living our natural connection as humans beings.
Wow, this is ground breaking for men and women, knowing that both male and female aspects are within us both and can surrender inwards to, for a more wholesome way of being with each other.
Do we act with integrity 24/7? Or do we act with integrity 7/7 and spend 17/7 indulging in our own dramas and issues?
Wow there is a whole multi-dimensional aspect to making love that includes the physical body but goes way beyond the physical when we allow ourselves to be fully seen by another person.
Serge Benhayon talks about sex without hesitation or awkwardness but in the full embracing of its power and beauty, as a foregone conclusion of living in true intimacy throughout the day with one’s partner and not just in the bedroom.
Thank you Serge and Rebecca for going there – where others fear to tread and yet it is something we all know at heart. For example we know there is much more to making love than what is commonly portrayed and it is ok to express that not in a way that either person feels rejected but to say there is more and that is something grand.
I agree with you humanity is being offered something far grander than the mundane way of life we are expecting. Recent events have shown that we are now prepared to accept far less than we had before. So these topics of conversation that Serge and Rebecca have are now even more important because we seem to be accepting even less of life than we had before and we are being controlled more now than ever before. By bringing everything back to our bodies we can take back control of ourselves.
Surely we must all know the mechanical orgasm whilst it may serve some purpose is not IT. Thank you taking making love to a whole other level in this conversation that honours the whole.
And offers so many more ways to make love in addition to the physical act.
A reminder that there is always more than we choose to feel and appreciation.
I had not heard of the term ‘toxic masculinity’ before watching this interview, but Rebecca Asquith does such a great job of describing it, and how it has come about. I really appreciate Rebecca’s clear and accessible use of language, it’s like she is always speaking in a way that anyone can understand – even with some pretty complicated or big subjects, Rebecca always communicates with clarity.
What a revolutionary episode, well just like the rest of them really. You can scratch your head and go what do you mean energetic sex which is immortal beings making love, Gods making Love. How Serge has shared this it makes total and absolute sense and for me a huge confirmation as to why I never settled for the function of sex. We are capable of so much more if we so choose to connect and go deeper with it. Wholesome indeed.
Such a beautiful conversation with so many take aways. For example a great section on sensitivity and how it is a strength and also the power of surrender – how much of our language has been bastardised even including the word sex which is not a dirty word.
It is great bringing back so much love, understanding and honouring back to areas that have been turned into a caricature.
I agree – how many see sex as a goal oriented act rather than a meeting and a surrender and an opportunity to be sensitive.
Yes, it was super powerful to hear Serge talk about surrender and how it allows us to deepen our connection to ourselves and the other – so much more beautiful and intimate.
There is a difference between function and purpose.
Just as there is a difference between love and what we are sold as love.
There is something disgusting about most pornography and that effect seems often to be quite deliberate as the discomfort or even pain of the actors seems to be part of the attraction.
If everything is made about Love then we have no need for anything that is not.
Understanding this one point alone has the potential to transform all our relationships.