Episode 6 - Understanding the Beingness that Constitutes the Human Being

What happens before anxiety becomes anxiety? What happens before dementia becomes dementia? What is the nature of our dis-ease before it becomes a physical and nameable disease?

We each have our own favourite flavour that we use to check out and numb ourselves from the mundanity of life. Yet the why remains. Why, when we are deeply sensitive multi-dimensional beings, do we distract ourselves with chips, television, gaming, drugs, and or ice cream?

In this insightful interview Serge Benhayon takes the ‘100 steps back’ from some very human problems to look at the human being when the ‘beingness’ of the human gets denied and buried. Beyond this he explores the vibrant beauty of what life can look like when the being is fostered and nurtured in a way “that society is yet to comprehend.”

And P.S. if you ever felt like you wanted to blame your parents for how your life turned out, even just a little bit… make sure you watch the second half of this episode.

143 comments

  • Gill Randall June 12, 2017   Reply →

    The definition of anxiousness as being the gap between a denial of knowing ourselves energetically and shutting down what we have sensed is something I have never heard taught by anyone else but Serge Benhayon. We live in our body to function but we have not understood how we live is so far off course how we should be, which is why we have so many illnesses and diseases; it is because of the withdrawal from life.

  • leigh matson June 12, 2017   Reply →

    A very playful and confirming interview, beautiful!
    The part about supply and demand gets me thinking – when making a ‘bad’ choice, rather than placing the blame and judgement on the ‘bad’ choice and believing that that is where the evil is – this I have felt stuck in for a very long time. But why did I ask, call out or demand the energy to fuel that ill expression? Why did I need to make that choice? And what part of my being am I responsible to/for expressing right now?
    This is only going to further expand I can feel.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 18, 2017   Reply →

      I completely agree another “playful and confirming interview” that leaves you reflecting and reaching far deeper realisations about life.
      The wisdom, understanding of the human predicament and the genuine care with which Serge Benhayon presents make these TV series invaluable.

  • vanessa mchardy June 13, 2017   Reply →

    Only 15mins in and so much gold, loved the Groucho Marcs humour, but it makes so much sense all this focus on human function leaves us without the connection to our beingness. From there we are rudderless so to speak without a foundation to spark from.

    • Rowena Stewart August 1, 2017   Reply →

      Agreed Vanessa, when we only focus on our human functionality we are only living from one half of who we truly are, and it has to be said, the human bit is the lesser part of us. It’s a bit like inhabiting in a grand mansion but only living in one room on the ground floor!

  • Jennifer Smith June 13, 2017   Reply →

    I love how Serge Benhayon talks about taking the 100 steps back, as he has also mentioned in other episodes. If we look at our issues, whether they be personal or whether they be more society based and we don’t take the 100 steps back then we will essentially end up with more of the same and we won’t be able to reach the core of what the issue or problem is, we will still be in the midst of it and not see clearly what is going on. These interviews are ground breaking as Serge talks about the energetic of how we are living in a very practical and understandable way.

    • Aimee Edmonds June 18, 2017   Reply →

      If we understood this and exercised the 100 steps back, imagine what work places, schools, hospitals, mental health etc. would look like?

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh June 22, 2017   Reply →

      When you truly understand the significance of what is proposed about taking 100 steps back before even attempting to tackle any problem, it becomes evident that any other way of approaching the issue simply does not make sense.

  • Carmel Reid June 13, 2017   Reply →

    The statistics on Dementia are startling – to hear that it is the ‘most popular’ way of dying is showing what a mess we are making of our lives. We are seeking to escape the tension we feel in our bodies rather than embrace who we are in full.

    • Natallija June 14, 2017   Reply →

      Yes these statistics are truly an eye opener and what is interesting to note is how often it is considered a conversational piece of laughter yet it is the reality of what we are facing in our current worldwide climate. Serge Benhayon makes so much sense in sharing the understanding of the choices we make to live our fullness, or not, and this impacts us all whether we have dementia or are supporting those with the condition.

  • Richard Mills June 13, 2017   Reply →

    I love this sense of beingness discussed here. Connecting to our beingness brings a deeper quality to living that is not all about what we do and what we can achieve. It is an essence that is present no matter what is going on externally, felt in the fullness of the body, not thought by the mind. To me it adds a ‘new’ – perhaps ‘ancient’ – dimension to life, one that feels absolutely solid and fully supportive. I also find that in connection with this beingness I am more present in everything I do and that each moment can be fulfilling in itself, rather than seeking of fulfilment.

  • Ingrid Ward June 13, 2017   Reply →

    Another brilliant episode on life from Serge Benhayon and Rebecca Asquith, where I came to understand so much more about the “human being” and how we are so out of balance, living a life that is way lesser than we could be. We are all amazing beings; we simply need to understand why we are spending so much time, energy and money avoiding being all of who we are. It’s time to stop being so irresponsible and step into the incredible life that is waiting for us.

    • Jennifer Smith June 15, 2017   Reply →

      That’s a great question Ingrid..why are we avoiding who we are, when who we are is who we are missing?!

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh June 27, 2017   Reply →

      Listening to Serge Benhayon speak, my awareness of the love we are held in and the sheer grace and magnificence that flows through us deepens. I also become clearer that the current human world and human existence we have created is at best a caricature version and at worst the antithesis of who we truly are.

  • Alison Moir June 13, 2017   Reply →

    This interview looks behind the anxiousness that is now running humanity and why we all have it at some degree whether we are honest about it or not. Taking 100 steps back makes sense to be able to look at what is really going on. I know for myself it can be very easy just to take 5 steps back and think I have done enough but I have found that all this does is shift the blame onto something else but does not get to the root cause. An in depth and much needed presentation on what happens to us and our body when we go into anxiousness, and the long term illnesses such as dementia that can follow from not being true to ourselves in every moment

    • Natallija June 23, 2017   Reply →

      The root cause is the deeper offering that we experience from viewing these quality TV episodes. It is so easy to touch on subjects that need addressing but when we allow ourselves to go to a deeper level and identify why these behaviours are occurring, there is an opportunity for such a profound level of healing and releasing of pain/hurt that may have controlled our lives for many years. Thank you Serge Benhayon for presenting the truth of the quality humanity live with that is far from what is truly possible.

  • Mary June 13, 2017   Reply →

    Once again Serge Benhayon is discussing topics that have for years been closed off, in a way that is educating, scientific and certainly gets me asking myself questions about the way we are all living as a society. To me something is definitely out of kilter with us as a whole and may be Serge Benhayon has the answers? For me he is definitely worth listening to because he dares to go where no one else has dared to go, he dares to lift the lid on society and take a real hard look at what is actually taking place. It reminds me somewhat of curious child taking the top off an Ant hill and observing how they live in a community with each other.

  • rosanna bianchini June 13, 2017   Reply →

    When the being aspect of the human-being is brought into our daily awareness we will know that we cannot continue to write off the ‘small things’ – the ‘subtle’ changes we observe in ourselves and others. As if we do, and allow this is to escalate, pick up momentum, and cement into the physical human body, then we indeed end up with the very real dis-ease and obvious illness and diseases we observe around us.

    • Natallija June 19, 2017   Reply →

      I love what was shared here about the possibility of “reparenting” the way we live and the choices we are making now rather than continue to live in a cycle of blame and feeling hard done by.

  • Christoph Schnelle June 13, 2017   Reply →

    What Serge Benhayon teaches makes sense when you feel the difference in your body – the stepping back and going to the source. Then you have a choice whether to continue with behaviour that harms in the short or long term or not.

  • Jenny James June 14, 2017   Reply →

    Brilliant, thank you Serge Benhayon and Rebecca Asquith. We are not only human, we are human beings and need to develop and not escape from our beingness – our Way of Being

  • Natalie Hawthorne June 14, 2017   Reply →

    That is brilliant way of explaining it Serge Benhayon – we have left the beingness out of the human. Bring a balanced way of expressing and living with the focus equally on the quality of the beingness and the multidimensional vibration that it is into the human life that we have here on earth. It makes complete and utter sense and I for one was not brought up to foster this relationship.

  • Bernadette Curtin June 14, 2017   Reply →

    Listening to this interview really brought home to me how important, how truly loving it is to cherish and listen to the being inside the body, and to look after the body to honour the multi-dimensional being that we all are.

  • Ariana Ray June 14, 2017   Reply →

    This episode is very powerful as it ‘explores the vibrant beauty of what life can look like when the being is fostered and nurtured.’ We are often so focused on the world that we forget what life can really look like, what we have the potential to live in this world.

  • Alison Moir June 14, 2017   Reply →

    Being aware that we are more than human beings and that there is a beinginess that we have not yet tapped into that offers a dimension that the human remains unaware of. If we were purely functioning humans then why have we not managed to fix the body when it goes wrong? There has to be more and so what Serge Benhayon brings makes sense, that there is something grander that is multidimensional that we have yet to tap into. I so love these interviews, they offer so much for us to ponder on, even in the simplest of words such as ‘human being’.

  • Ingrid Ward June 14, 2017   Reply →

    What other television program gets you to stop and ask yourself some very important questions about the way you are living? None that I know of. But here I am, having watched this episode of Serge Benhayon TV, asking myself – why have I not been living the amazing being that I am? …for that I have come to realise that not doing so is incredibly irresponsible. I know that I am not alone in doing so but that doesn’t make it any less irresponsible because the way I have been living is the result of my choices; it is my creation and the responsibility to change it is all mine.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 17, 2017   Reply →

      The wisdom and empowerment offered in Serge Benhayon’s presentations are immense. Without prescribing anything, or asking anything of you, they always inspire me to reflect more deeply, more honestly, more lovingly and more responsibly at the choices in life I have been making.

  • Vicky Cooke June 14, 2017   Reply →

    Loved the playfulness of Serge and love this episode. So … start from the point that we appreciate our amazingness! And … ‘not having the ability to communicate what we have sensed leads to an angst’. Two things I got from watching this for the first time. Appreciate who are are .. that we are truly amazing and express what we feel … all the time.

  • Natallija June 14, 2017   Reply →

    Thanks for sharing some light on the “polished anxiety” that is often masked by many. This sharing rings so true and reminded me of how I lived a great majority of my career. Giving the impression that all was under control but feeling a deep level of sadness as the ‘beingness’ was never being met by me. Thank you Serge Benhayon for writing about the simplicity of the word yet the grandness that it brings us all.

  • Jennifer Smith June 14, 2017   Reply →

    Our beingness is not something that is outside or imposed on us it is who we are at the core. The phrase ‘Human Being’ is a very beautiful one for it describes our beingness in human form and how we can actually explore that as a human. We lose so much in just seeing ourselves as functional or even in a mechanical way. We miss the fact that we are all made of the exact same stuff the universe is made of.

  • mary June 15, 2017   Reply →

    I have used the 100 steps analogy and it is working well by stepping away from any situation or problem and almost observing it in a curious way, with a real interest to know what’s going on. It has helped me put space between me and what is actually taking place so I’m reacting less to the world and my stress levels have fallen quite dramatically, which has changed the way I eat, I don’t eat to comfort myself any more but to nourish my body as it is what I live in and so it should have the utmost respect from me.

    • Vicky Cooke September 14, 2017   Reply →

      Great sharing Mary and something I can see I can tangibly use in my life as well.

  • Natalie Hawthorne June 15, 2017   Reply →

    The true teacher is from within, when we connect to this and allow this wisdom through then we are on the path of returning to the Amazing Beings that we are. As a generation that is leading the way forth is it not essential that this is our every moment, in the detail. Not forgetting and accepting the Almighty Beings that we are is the only way of return which will only foster being healthy and vital Human Beings that we desperately seek.

  • Gill Randall June 15, 2017   Reply →

    I love these episodes of TV with Serge Benhayon. If we live mundane and with a low grade unhappiness, we can continue to function but this builds within our bodies. It makes total sense to me that ill mental health is simply the human being withdrawing. We are amazing beings and when we do not live from that, we are not living our truth.

  • Jennifer Smith June 15, 2017   Reply →

    I Love the qualities of a human being that Serge Benhayon presents here. Do we know these qualities and have we lived them? Most of us would know these qualities from our experiences as children, but because of how we deal with life along the way, these very natural qualities get hidden underneath our perception of our experiences.

  • Sarah Karam June 15, 2017   Reply →

    I love how Serge Benhayon points out that the root problem is the “demand” for things that are based on escapism, this stems from the fact that our society is lacking the relationship with any kind of ” beingness”. The supply is secondary, a simple aftermath. It’s refreshing to shift the focus from the big bad supplier and put the responsibility back on us, this interview is asking us why we are disconnecting in the first place? brilliant!

  • Stephen Gammack June 16, 2017   Reply →

    To not compartmentalise life, the link between dementia and all aspects of our life. Great to hear about, as it can be easy to look for a single cause of any condition, but address the whole of what is not in harmony and we remove all the ills. Nothing is chance and nothing is not related to the bigger picture of what is our being and the many conditions we have created through not taking care of the body.

  • HM June 17, 2017   Reply →

    Wow this is huge – anxiousness is the left over of not having the ability to communicate what we have sensed. I mean when I read this – my whole body knows this to be true. I used to think anxiousness was a reaction to what was going on around me, but actually it starts with me first! That is a big one to look at and be honest with.

  • Jenny James June 17, 2017   Reply →

    ‘Take 100 steps back’ as Serge Benhayon presents is brilliant in its simplicity. A great reminder of how we can view the veneer, not seeing the layers underneath, and so never get to truly address our ills.

  • Natallija June 17, 2017   Reply →

    This ‘beingness’ is starting to make a whole lot of sense to me. Stopping to take note of the grandness and how often the human is put in the forefront struggling with doubt, ideals and beliefs.

  • Gill Randall June 17, 2017   Reply →

    Serge Benhayon drops a great bombshell in this episode about the demand being the root of the evil of the problem because of our energetic irresponsibility. When we stop looking for the relief and the checking out, the demand will reduce and the supply is no longer required. I love the 100 step back thinking from Serge Benhayon, we need to look a long way back to understand the bigger picture for our understanding of the human being.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 18, 2017   Reply →

      It is our own demand that calls for the existence of the supply of all the things most of us say we would rather not have. This is a huge revelation that we are asked to consider.
      I love the way Serge Benhayon always offers an understanding away from blame and animosity toward one another, and instead invites us to have a much more responsible relationship with life.

  • Aimee Edmonds June 18, 2017   Reply →

    Love this whole episode and the how the questions flowed to every part of our lives, truly supportive, thank you. This answered so many questions I had about anxiety, for which I had for most of my life, and I would have loved to listen to this many years ago. It makes so much sense, not expressing everything I felt caused so much tension in my body that I would shake inside from the moment I woke to the moment I went to bed… and of course would have during my sleep. No wonder I was so exhausted. My whole life has changed, as well as my anxiety levels dropping to almost nothing, by expressing honestly with myself and others.

  • Golnaz Shariatzaddeh June 18, 2017   Reply →

    Humanity has been spending so much effort and resources finding ways to manage or fix the many issues we have in living a human life. What is offered here is truly revelatory: we need to take at least 100 steps back to resolve the original departure from living the truth of who we are.

    It is that departure that has led to the myriad of problems we are now trying to address. Without this understanding we will just keep going round and round ingraining and magnifying the patterns which are producing the issues.

  • Judith Andras June 20, 2017   Reply →

    “We are amazing beings…”
    That is the most freeing and empowering statement to make, but who makes this kind of statement? It is always about bettering and improving ourselves, never about returning to the amazing beings that we are unless of course you talk to Serge Benhayon.

  • Natalie Hawthorne June 20, 2017   Reply →

    That’s why we are called Human Beings because we have a multi-dimensional quality to us as well. I so remember having a glass of wine or two pretty much most nights at the end of a shift in hospitality. That was the normal thing to do and really appreciating where the wine came from and all the qualities that it tasted and smelt of. I can say this definitely altered my state of being and my Beingness got smashed every time I did this. When I stopped this and started to honour my Beingness life started to become multi-dimensional. Its a trillion times better the feeling inside of you than any glass of wine can give you.

  • rosanna bianchini June 20, 2017   Reply →

    Wow the answer to all ill mental health is given here by Serge Benhayon in one simple sentence: “The human being withdrawing and separating itself completely to the understanding that the beingness is bringing to it.” How crucial is it then to know these two components of the human-being. This is absolute gold for any phychotherapist, doctor, counsellor or psychologist and needs to be lesson number one in any training programme.

  • Natalie Hawthorne June 21, 2017   Reply →

    This is such a fantastic episode, just like all the rest and i’m sure there are many more to come. Keep them coming Serge because this truth and how you so easily explain things and for it to make so much sense is exactly what we all need. I know you have helped me understand and see things in a new way of looking at life. One that I had been looking for my whole life but gave up because nothing was presenting to me the truth. Thank you Serge Benhayon.

  • Stephen Gammack June 21, 2017   Reply →

    I can relate to that “low grade anxiousness”, it makes a lot of sense what is being discussed here. It’s great to understand that there is a way out of this through my choices, that communicating and accepting oneself is a great antidote to this condition.

  • Gabriele Conrad June 21, 2017   Reply →

    Anxiousness is endemic and the driver of many human behaviours that are a direct counter to our beingness.

  • Stephen Gammack June 22, 2017   Reply →

    It would be brilliant if this interview could start a mass worldwide conversation on what health means and what is causing so much ill health among us. To start to get more honest about the startling rates of illness and disease is essential, and our thinking needs to get broader and more open to the energy of our behaviour, and why we make choices so easily that hurt us so much.

  • rosanna bianchini June 23, 2017   Reply →

    My body just melts when I hear Serge Benhayon describe here the natural amazing qualities that we all are. This gets us to ask the ‘why’ questions. I’ve found this self questioning of behaviours and thoughts are super revealing and bring me closer to living that amazingness each time one of them gets exposed.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh June 29, 2017   Reply →

      It is a breath of fresh air when someone is so committed to people, as is Serge Benhayon, and is willing to lovingly blow the lid and reveal the truth, whether it is to remind us of the glory that is our true essence, or to expose the games we have been playing to hide that magnificence.

  • Stephen Gammack June 23, 2017   Reply →

    To seek solace in our addictions and distractions is always ultimately a choice. What is presented here feels so huge and it is when you consider how much we deny the incredible beings that we are. To take stock of just how amazing we are, perhaps for most, needs a reawakening of the understanding of just how much we are actually capable of. And crucially, how much of a difference even one person can make to the choices and behaviours of the many, the willingness to return to love as our foremost action.

  • Gill Randall June 23, 2017   Reply →

    Serge Benhayon describes developing the beingness of the human being as a different way to observe how we live in the body. The human part is mended by medical science when necessary but we still have so much to learn about the multidimensional character of the beingness to make the human being whole. This lack of how we live explains why we have so much dementia in society.

  • Ariana Ray June 24, 2017   Reply →

    Serge Benhayon ‘explores the vibrant beauty of what life can look like when the being is fostered and nurtured in a way’. Sadly, in the world there are few who live this vibrant beauty, for we are accepting that ill-health is now normal health.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh June 24, 2017   Reply →

    It so gorgeous watching profound wisdom offered in such a relatable and playful way.

  • HM June 24, 2017   Reply →

    This episode brings to light all the things we do to avoid our potential. We have become very good at distraction and delay. It is a big illusion that might be worth us considering ‘why’. In the end this is an opportunity for us to ask ourselves how long we are willing to play the game for.

  • Stephen Gammack June 25, 2017   Reply →

    Changing the focus from the evil of supply to the real evil of demand. This would change the war on drugs we have right now, which is has a demand due to a reaction and subsequent disconnection people feel to the world, that makes them wish to take drugs. There is a study of rats that only chose cocaine when there were no other rats to be with, perhaps many ill behaviours we have are related to not feeling supported and loved and in natural connection to our fellow brothers. And that the antidote to things we consider evil or harming is to create an environment that supports and loves everyone.

  • Katerina Nikolaidis June 25, 2017   Reply →

    What a stunning TV series this is. Hugely inspiring and nourishing deeply for the human and the being. Thank you to all who have made this happen.

  • Lieke Campbell June 26, 2017   Reply →

    Amazing interview. One of the points that stood out for me is that even if we feel a little bit like life is not how we would like it to be there is something to look at and address because otherwise we will try to numb it away with foods and many other forms of distraction and we will find ourselves way down the line, not remembering who we are or why we are where we are in life. I feel this is a great point to look at and implement in our healthcare services.

  • Joshua Campbell June 26, 2017   Reply →

    The way Serge Benhayon has broken down the being in the word ‘human being’ is deliciously playfull but equally quite revealing as it exposes how we are so flippant at the way we use word without understanding what we truly are saying. Even in the words ‘Human Being’ we have mixed up our association of the being with what we call being human – in other words day to day physical life. In this the understanding of who the being truly is is not there and the fact that we are not asking who the being truly is is covered up by our casual use of this phrase.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh June 28, 2017   Reply →

      I grew up with a language that does not truly differentiate between ghost, spirit and Soul. But even in a language that does have several words for this, I find a tendency to not pay attention to the true meaning of words and muddle them up anyway.

      Serge Benhayon’s dedication to precise use of words offers an insight into how our complacency and misuse of words actually stunt our awareness of the dynamics of life, and invite a return to a deeper connection. The flippant use of the words ‘human being’ which misses out the significance of the word ‘being’ is a great example.

  • Natalie Hawthorne June 26, 2017   Reply →

    Working together and supporting each other to see when we are not being responsible can only come from us taking those steps to be responsible ourselves. One thing that I have observed and learnt from Serge Benhayon is the way he is, is how consistent he is the whole time. Now that is over 13 years of me keeping a very close eye on him and up this point I have not seen or heard anything from him that is not true and consistent. His humour and depth is beyond this world and I love every second I am in his presence because he continually is asking us to be all of who we are with out any judgement. This ultimate Love that he is offering us all is the reason I keep returning and deepening my relationship with myself. Serge is a REMARKABLE MAN.

  • Natallija June 26, 2017   Reply →

    I absolutely love what is shared here about the choices we have in “re-parenting”. The opportunity to look back on what didn’t support us without judgement of those who did parent -but a willingness to make changes that are providing the growth and healing that is on offer for all.

  • HM June 27, 2017   Reply →

    ‘The evil is in the demand’ – That sure is a myth buster! We are led to believe we are victims but in truth what are we requesting? At the end of the day we are all people – it is people who develop huge companies that cater to our needs. So the question becomes what is our role in wanting so many things in life that numb us?

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh June 27, 2017   Reply →

      This completely blows the lid off the mentality of pointing the finger and blaming others for our misery. It is such a gorgeous prompt for reflection, accountability and reclaiming the power of the impact we have through our choices.

  • Stephen Gammack June 27, 2017   Reply →

    I can relate to the anxiety and tension that arises when I don’t accept how much I am feeling, how sensitivity is there in every moment. To simply clock that we are sensitive beings it brings a different perspective to our experiences and allows us to understand situations much better.

  • Judith Andras June 27, 2017   Reply →

    Listening to the interview makes you realise how far away we are as a society in the way we live from who we truly are. We live a million miles away, and most of the time don’t even know that this is the case.

  • jennym June 28, 2017   Reply →

    It makes sense if I cut my awareness to what I am feeling, anxiousness will arise as our ability to feel life is what allows us to respond in terms of what is needed in any moment

  • Vicky Cooke June 28, 2017   Reply →

    Now this is what I call worthwhile TV and something I can (and do) watch over and over again always learning something else each time. So much is said here to reflect on. So to develop the being in human being is to work multidimensional and energetically .. this is what is currently missing in our society, humanity, world. And the whole ‘everything in moderation!’ is ‘okay’ for the human but not for the being. We are a greatest teachers and we are currently not taking multidimensionality seriously enough.

  • Natalie Hawthorne June 29, 2017   Reply →

    Through the teachings of Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon I have started to claim that there is inside of me a wisdom that is all knowing. That I have a wealth of knowledge that I have not been encouraged until now to embrace and trust. Even though I had a knowing all along everything around me was saying the opposite. We are our own teachers.

  • Kerstin Salzer June 29, 2017   Reply →

    This television show is presenting deep and healing wisdom and certainly I will listen to it more often than once.

  • Samantha Davidson June 29, 2017   Reply →

    I Love the fact that I and we are ‘beings’ first , we are energy first, and I love the understanding of the ‘100 steps’ etc back to really look at the root of how we have mislead ourselves, to get a clear way back to return to our truth as beings first.

  • Ariana Ray June 29, 2017   Reply →

    What constitutes the human being? This is not a question that is commonly asked on a TV show – yet it needs asking everywhere. Serge Benhayon gives the truth of what constitutes the human being’s we are.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh July 11, 2017   Reply →

      The number of times through life I have heard people say in one form or another that ‘there must be more to life’…. A huge insight about this situation is offered here by Serge Benhayon’s playful yet poignant expose of how we are not paying attention to the ‘being’ part of the ‘human being’.

  • Ariana Ray June 30, 2017   Reply →

    It seems that we are in denial of our beingness. We truck through our lives in a 3 dimensional way assuming we know all there is to know and don’t even see what is under our noses – the being. We ignore it and trash the body, all the while trashing our own salvation, for the body of the being is what is true, not the mind which is arrogant with the wiley spirit.

  • John O Connell June 30, 2017   Reply →

    Thank you Rebecca, a beautiful interview, and for me it was great to learn what I have been feeling all my life as Serge Benhayon explains near the start of the interview ” when we feel there is another sense to life ” as a child I was feeling this and its great to hear it presented into words.

  • vanessa mchardy July 1, 2017   Reply →

    Serge presents so clearly what is really going on with us and why we struggle so much in life. The world and humanity is in such an extreme state of unease that we really need to pay attention to the level of wisdom and knowing of what will heal us.

  • Danna Elmalah July 1, 2017   Reply →

    A superb teaching that truly supports mankind to understand, understand the misery we are currently in. Understanding this allows us to feel and see the co-relation between our living & choices and our surrounding. How much we have looked outside instead of inside – and how much we are now at the result of that – not even realizing the movement we are in.
    This interview on SB.tv offers all of the listeners to take a deeper step inside our hearts, let our minds be, and connect with the fact that we have a body that knows all the divine truth. And so, is forever calling us to restore and come back. Coming back to our innate truth we all have inside, inside our hearts, within our Soul – this is religion. Thank you Rebecca Asquith and Serge Benhayon for sharing the absolute truth on life and our energetic beingness, which is always first to be looked at before anything else – as this will bring back all our answers. A powerful message to us All.

  • leigh matson July 2, 2017   Reply →

    I loved coming back to this. Like the books I can read /watch the same part repeatedly and get a different angle each time. The part about parenting and fostering our ability to communicate our being stuck with me this time. A much needed reminder that we can be the most loving parent we could ever want or need.

  • Stephen Gammack July 2, 2017   Reply →

    “the greatest teacher is me” that is the ultimate, we actually have everything within us to live a successful, enjoyable, fulfilling and incredible life. That is a real world teacher, someone who empowers others to know the power they have the capacity to live.

    • Natallija August 18, 2017   Reply →

      The ‘greatest teacher’ is one that can impart their way of living in a far greater way than just their way of teaching!

  • SCE July 2, 2017   Reply →

    Oh wow what Serge and Rebecca share here about anxiety is amazing, said like this I now have a totally different understanding of to deal with it.

  • Kerstin Salzer July 2, 2017   Reply →

    To truly develop the trust to know who we truly are is a step by step process which frees oneself of ideals and beliefs and brings joy and love into the body.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh July 2, 2017   Reply →

    At times the incessant innocent questions of children makes me laugh, when they ask “why?”, you offer them the best answer you’ve got, only to find this results in then throwing you another “why?”. Nothing like the genuine inquisitiveness of a child to keep us on our toes and push us into the realisation that so much of what we assume as normal does not even add up.

    Serge Benhayon’s invitation for us to consider looking at least 100 steps back to understand the discrepancies we are facing in the present, makes so much sense.

  • John O Connell July 6, 2017   Reply →

    I agree Golnaz and the other aspect for me is that if we do not take that 100 steps back to the source of the ill and we go back some of the way we are still in the ill momentum ” of the misconception or waywardness that got us to the problem in the first place ” we will just end up giving the problem a different colour or name.

  • Liane Mandalis July 7, 2017   Reply →

    We are yet to fully understand the intricacies and outplay of ‘supply and demand’ because we are yet to take full responsibility for ‘the beast’ we have been feeding, preferring instead to ‘rage at the system’ and its inherent corruption without for a moment pausing to reflect on our part in it.

  • Jenny James July 8, 2017   Reply →

    Brilliant TV. Leaves much to ponder on about the way we ignore our beingness in our life, the treasure of who we are, and relegate ourselves to function.

  • Natalie Hawthorne July 11, 2017   Reply →

    This is one thing that I really can feel is needed for me and i’m sure for many others as well. To be able to remain sensitive and not react, to be able to understand what it is that I am feeling and then express it openly to all as and when it is happening.

  • Kerstin Salzer July 12, 2017   Reply →

    My understanding is when we are truly living and expressing from our heart we are living responsibility.

  • Alison Moir July 12, 2017   Reply →

    Dementia is the second highest cause of death after heart disease, yet when I was young dementia was not talked about and was not as prevalent as it is now, so it makes sense what Rebecca Asquith and Serge Benhayon share here. We can not ignore the detail in our lives, we can not dismiss our unhappiness, our discontentment, and mundaneness of life that we may try to shrug off, but all the time it is affecting us more than we realise.

  • John O Connell July 14, 2017   Reply →

    Thank you Rebecca Asquith, there is no doubt in what you say ” we have created an environment that must be contra to developing the being to who they are ” when you consider what Serge Benhayon has said ” we are reading life constantly and we are understanding it at a very very deep level ” the created environment is the process of denying the truth of where we are truly from and us as human spirits collude in that deception .

  • Kerstin Salzer July 14, 2017   Reply →

    Listening to this episode it makes a lot of sense that only when we develop our beingness this makes us whole and that our true power is based on our beingness. The power of love comes from our being which is knowing everything. It knows when and what to eat, how much to eat, when to go to bed, how to work in order not to exhaust oneself etc.

  • Jonathan Stewart July 14, 2017   Reply →

    This interview is truly revelatory. Perceiving and understanding that there are two aspects to a human being, the human functional aspect and the being, and that mankind has focused on one aspect, the human, exposes and explains the fundamental cause underlying all illness, disease and social unrest.

  • Jonathan Stewart July 14, 2017   Reply →

    To understand that the culprit for the problems of society and ourselves lies with the ‘demand’ and not the ‘supplier’ turns the whole approach to sorting out the problems of the world totally on its head – no longer finding solutions but actual resolution.

  • Rowena Stewart July 16, 2017   Reply →

    This entire episode makes complete sense, as we are without a doubt Human Beings. If we focus only on being Human and ignore the ‘Being-ness’ we are basically cutting our selves in half. There is so much more to us that what we are lead to believe and Serge Benhayon is delivering some key education here about how we truly get back on track as the real, powerful, multi-dimensional and very wise Beings we all naturally are.

  • Viktoria July 17, 2017   Reply →

    To be reminded that the lack of expressing leads to check out is huge for me right now, it’s so interesting because I hold back so much more than I ever thought I did!

    • rosanna bianchini July 20, 2017   Reply →

      True Viktoria, I find the more we become aware, the more there is to be aware of.

  • Ariana Ray July 17, 2017   Reply →

    ‘We each have our own favourite flavour that we use to check out and numb ourselves from the mundanity of life.’ To understand the truth of this statement is sad but true and it is a truth we need to fully feel so we stop making those choices to live in a way that is not in accord with who we are.

  • rosanna bianchini July 20, 2017   Reply →

    How gorgeous to hear someone talk with such knowing of the beauty of the human being, when we all too often forget this aspect or choose to be ignorant of it, focussing only on the good the bad and the ugly. With reflection on the being, we get to feel there is far more to life and relationships than we had thought, it expands our horizons, addresses our hurts and calls us to greater responsibility in what we can each contribute to society.

  • Stephen Gammack July 22, 2017   Reply →

    “We are not miserable on our own”, that is a bit of a stop moment, and certainly makes me consider how I will be in the next moment I feel down. There is much more at play than our own care and wellbeing, there is the care and wellbeing of everyone. That is probably a bit too much for some to accept, but I feel it is certainly the way we are heading in how we view life, what Serge Benhayon presents makes too much sense for it to continue to be ignored.

  • Gill Randall July 22, 2017   Reply →

    This is great TV to watch, there is always something more to hear, even though I have listened to it a few times. We can fix the physical human body BUT understanding the ‘being’ part of the human being component is where we need to develop to bring the multidimensionality to being human. As humanity, we are way out by how we live in parts instead of understanding that everything is interconnected. Any low grade unhappiness or misery has an impact on the rest of the body and leads to the human being withdrawing. I love the support from Serge Benhayon when he says we need to start from the fact that we are amazing and avoid at all costs anything that diminishes who we truly are.

    • Jonathan Stewart July 24, 2017   Reply →

      Yes, every time I listen to any of the episodes I always hear something I did not appreciate previously. There is such a wealth of wisdom in what Serge Benhayon presents. Until reading your sharing of Serge’s showing the importance of accepting our amazingness I realised I had not appreciated how supportive that is.

  • HM July 23, 2017   Reply →

    so true that the root problem is in the demand – and that as a society we can at any moment look around us and see what is truly going on – that we are the ones setting ourselves up for what is going on in society.

  • Jonathan Stewart July 24, 2017   Reply →

    Approaching health with the perspective and understanding that there are two aspects to being a human being – the ‘human’ and the ‘being – and the fact that we focus on one aspect, the ‘human,’ explains so much as to why there is the illness, disease, the lack of joy in life and the social unrest everywhere.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh July 27, 2017   Reply →

    I spent years searching for answers in studies, books, courses, theories, religious teachings without gaining any real understanding or sense of settlement within, until I met Serge Benhayon. I have never come across anyone who sheds so much light on the conditions and issues humanity finds itself in and with such clarity, love, tenderness and deep honouring.

  • Stephen Gammack July 27, 2017   Reply →

    Its simple and so true, that we get what we deserve in relation to our governments, the politics the industries and the corruption and self interest we experience. It is an ouch to feel it but we set it up this way and could we even say we actually want it this way as it means we don’t have to take responsibility. How many times have we said I don’t like this or that, but then done nothing more about it.

  • Natalie Hawthorne July 28, 2017   Reply →

    This answers so much, if we compartmentalise who we are and what we do then there is going to be a level of disharmony and then chaos to follow.

  • Rowena Stewart July 29, 2017   Reply →

    Pure gold. This is essential education because we can never be reminded enough that we are essentially a Being first and a Human second and it’s our Being that continues when our bodies have given up the ghost. Learning how to evolve our Being-ness is our greatest medicine.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh August 2, 2017   Reply →

      I agree. At the end of the day when we understand that we are all Beings first and foremost, “learning how to evolve our Being-ness” and expressing the grace of that in our daily lives is the only education that truly matters.

  • John O Connell July 31, 2017   Reply →

    There is great truth in the humour of the way Serge Benhayon talks about ” the human being ” I never considered the full words of describing one self ” human being ” . Even in the title of the words it shows we are more than human , we are a being in human form .

  • Natallija July 31, 2017   Reply →

    I am so starting to understand how we are forgetting the ‘being’ in order to race to the finish line that does not exist, as without holding each being in equalness we are then stuck in thinking it is only the human being.

  • Melinda Knights July 31, 2017   Reply →

    I have watched this a few times and find it very transformational and deeply healing for me each time. Serge Benhayon has such profound things to say and such a far reaching awareness of life as human beings, and it’s so very obvious he deeply cares about the human condition. The value of a true philosopher for the whole of society is right there in this one video.

  • Stephen Gammack August 2, 2017   Reply →

    To be a good and responsible citizen is something that is talked about, but this conversation takes it much deeper. By listening to the presentations of Serge Benhayon I have started to understand that “energetic responsibility” goes way beyond just the appearance of good and bad behaviour to the deep intention and care and respect we have (and live) for ourselves and all of life. Our actions are much bigger than just our own life, but impact in unseen ways on the behaviours and outplays of all our fellow brothers on this planet.

  • Gill Randall August 2, 2017   Reply →

    The understanding that the world is seeking escapism shows the tension we are living in. But the distractions we seek get us nowhere further forwards. Serge Benhayon brings us back to an understanding that we need to be much more responsible for ourselves, knowing how we impact on each other all the time.

  • Samantha Davidson August 2, 2017   Reply →

    Life as a being, a human as a being, a human-being. We often get so obsessed, focused on the physical matter around us and of which we are constituted. We have many layers and being energy aware is how we explore, live and express these layers. Amazing TV.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh August 3, 2017   Reply →

    While some cannot in a way be proud of the ‘good’ in this world we have created and the quality of life most of us on our planet are living, we have otherwisebeen pointing our fingers at one another, or getting frustrated with ourselves, we have been piling up solutions after solutions only to find nothing makes much of a difference for long. Many of us have ended up fighting one another over it and many of us seem to have given up.
    Very refreshing that Serge Benhayon constantly reminds us that our real issue is that none of this originates from our true essence within us in the first place.
    It is a big revelation that it is not about clever solutions, but connecting to the ‘beingness’ that we truly are, and ensuring that this level of wisdom imbues every choice and action. It is not about marching down the street, but developing the courage and the trust that we know ourselves in our essence better than anyone else does, and starting to shine the power of such love in all areas in the world.

  • Gill Randall August 3, 2017   Reply →

    I love the multidimensional approach to the human and the being of a human being and how the greatness of being ourselves is already within us. It is very empowering to feel we have eveything, but then comes the responsibility for us to live this. The energetic responsibility that Serge Benhayon describes is how our movement affects everyone else and how these ripples can contribute to the misery (or otherwise) in the world. This is something to deeply ponder, it is such an illusion and a lie to believe I can live how I like and not affect others.

  • Natallija August 8, 2017   Reply →

    Each time I watch this episode I am total humbled by the quality in which the word “beingness” is been delivered to the world. Stopping to appreciate that we are much more than just what the world thinks they see.

  • Fumiyo Egashira August 9, 2017   Reply →

    I would have never considered myself to be suffering from anxiety, but this conversation makes me stop and wonder whether my ‘normal’ could just be a well learned coping mechanism and actually very far removed from me just being me naturally.

  • Doug Valentine August 20, 2017   Reply →

    An amazing 30 minutes of television exposing and explaining so many different aspects of human life and showing that they are not the mystery we tend to suppose.

  • Gill Randall August 21, 2017   Reply →

    This episode gives us a great understanding about what anxiety truly is. This is a brilliant learning for me as I know I have lived a lot of my life with anxiousness. The way is to stop and feel what happens before anxiety takes over and understand it is us not having the ability to communicate what we have sensed. We shut down or diminish it, not able to communicate what know is true. We can dull it, or polish it to manage it but that is not the answer, the anxiety is not who we are. It makes absolute sense to look back 100 steps to feel and understand how we have not developed the being part of the human being.

  • Natallija August 22, 2017   Reply →

    To bring this understanding to our young gives the potential for our future generations to feel that they are more than just a body that functions and that the quality that they share with another is valued at an inner level, thus brings the true relationships that we are constantly searching for in our current climate.

  • Ariana Ray August 25, 2017   Reply →

    This is a stunning question to pose ‘What is the nature of our dis-ease before it becomes a physical and nameable disease?’ It has to be about being less than we are, contracted and small and making ourselves smaller with all our behaviours

  • Natallija August 27, 2017   Reply →

    What a great way to leave watching a TV episode knowing that you can see the world through another way that asks us to be more loving and understanding – that is far from what is often shared on the mainstream screens.

  • Gill Randall August 28, 2017   Reply →

    Serge Benhayon reminds us how everything is connected, and how even low grade unhappiness builds up and we start to withdraw and have ill mental health. We need to deal with this right now, so we do not follow the trend of the mundane life that society is living. The true teacher is within. We are truly amazing, when we feel it, we can live all of this glory NOW.

  • Ariana Ray September 1, 2017   Reply →

    What constitutes a human being – a much needed TV series with truth and an expansion that serves us all – Thank you Serge Benhayon

  • Tricia Nicholson September 4, 2017   Reply →

    What an amazing exposing of anxiousness and not living the amazingness and multidimensionality of all we are but sticking to the mundane and depressive cycles we choose. The understanding of all disease and the root courses of where it comes from, and the simplicity and ease of the reality of it all so is beautifully presented and a joy to listen to.

    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 24, 2017   Reply →

      The deeper you go, the more it becomes clear that the root of all of our issues comes back to us not choosing to live the magnificence of our actual essence. What is amazing is that with Serge Benhayon such revelations are not just left in the realms of a theoretical understanding, you are inspired to start to see how it relates to you and your life in detail and where to go from there.

  • Carmel Reid September 7, 2017   Reply →

    There is so much covered in this episode it will take several viewings to take it all in – I love the explanation that we are Human Beings and that we have been focusing on the Human and need to also focus on the Being, recognising how enormous we truly are and the energetic responsibility we all have to check our movements whether in public or in secret – we affect everybody all of the time.

  • HM September 9, 2017   Reply →

    ‘We each have our own favourite flavour that we use to check out and numb ourselves’ – this is pretty insightful to the state of society – and very telling – it is a truth we need to hear in order to see where we are all at and to what extent we don’t want to take responsibility for why we have to numb out in the first place.

  • Rachel Murtagh September 10, 2017   Reply →

    I love the phrase now…’human-beings’ it makes sense so much to be! We are not called ‘human-doings’… and therefore we need to check we are not overdoing the doing instead of being the being!

  • Shami September 10, 2017   Reply →

    Amazing that we can consider ourselves as amazing, innately and essentially so. That this is the truth of who we all are. This amazingness is what every person has either yet to come to live or is already living. No matter where we all are on our journeys, being amazing is actually a crucial part of being human.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 10, 2017   Reply →

    I love how Serge Benhayon points out things that I may have missed for years. Children do this periodically and we make light of it. It is great to have an adult connect to such wisdom and be able to expand on it to deepen the understanding.
    How come we have been focusing on the ‘human’ and ignoring the ‘being’ in ‘human being’? This is huge in that it impacts every single aspect of life.

  • jennym September 10, 2017   Reply →

    What is so beautifully highlighted in this episode is the value in taking a few steps back to consider the dilemma we have made for ourselves as humans without considering our being part. Without considering the whole we will only bury ourselves and our issues further and solutions will ever only be temporary.

  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh September 15, 2017   Reply →

    We spend inordinate amount of time and resources on finding solutions and fixes of the myriad of ills in our world and in our own personal lives. But despite of much well-intended effort everything seems to be getting worse on a daily basis.
    And No the answer is not finding who and what to blame!
    What is it about ourselves we have been ignoring and how does that end up setting the foundation for all our ills? The insights offered here provide an invaluable starting point.

  • Ariana Ray September 17, 2017   Reply →

    The whole issue of us having a spirit that is out of control and a Soul, this is contentious in itself, as can people dig into their beliefs and defences to remain unaware, but at such high cost to ourselves and our lives.

  • Stephen Gammack September 17, 2017   Reply →

    For as long as we have an identity that squashes us into behaviours that are not who we really are, the tough guy, the glamour girl, the intellectual, the hard drinker, etc etc, to be thinking we must be this or that we will never be at ease in our bodies. I wonder at why we recoil so much at the thought that we are precious and fragile, all beings, not just women but men too. I know from experience that very few people would want to accept this, but imagine if we lived with this at the forefront of how we move and behave. A total game changer.

  • HM September 18, 2017   Reply →

    A great insight on where we are at with the human body. Even what is shared on anxiety and ill mental health is gold – that we cannot ignore the small things, it is so important that we don’t put function before our being – everything matters .

  • Richard Mills September 20, 2017   Reply →

    There is more to us than ‘meets the eye’ – and to me the word beingness captures this ‘more’ perfectly. There is such a depth and sense of expansion to it and to us that is available to us all to explore. More pure wisdom from SB.TV.

  • Stephen Gammack September 23, 2017   Reply →

    Every reaction I have does seem to have root in my experiences, and I love what is shared here about not allowing ourselves to be dominated by the childhood experiences we have, or to blame as an adult our parents for any struggle. It is so much more empowering to say, hey, I am an adult now, and I am going to let go of that particular experience and reset myself to be open and loving and really contribute a personality that is amazing to be around. It is quite a thing to do that and a way of living worth applying effort into.

  • Richard Mills September 23, 2017   Reply →

    ‘The evil is in the demand…not the supply’. That turns things on its head doesn’t it. What sorts of distraction and ‘medication’ are we demanding? I have certainly judged the drug dealer for supplying drugs…but have I been equally guilty of playing this game – not with drugs maybe but with my own part in the supply and demand? It seems so, for anything that distracts us from being all that we are in our true multi-dimensional nature is just as evil.

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